Acceptance is a big one so many smoking mirrors in this matrix trickery confuse the mind, we rule our own mind not the other way around. The mind does not rule us. The long and winding road is scary, but well worth it to travel. Staying connected to low vibrations just will not leave a lot of room for happiness just gloom and doom days and nights. I do not buy into the idea of changing people just at the very least evolve for your own personal growth. Sometimes the family matters can become boiling bubbling troubled waters, and the need to seek calmer waters can lead to open doors of orchestrated Universal wonderment that will make all of the difference to live an exceedingly abundantly fulfilling life.